Episode 708

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21st Oct 2022

Consistency, Vulnerability, and Healing: A Talk with Dr. Lakisha James, #708

We all go through our own phases - some are beautiful, and some aren’t.

And how you see life after every challenge all depends on you, choosing where to look.

Do you focus on what has already happened and dwell on it? Or do you get up and go on your way to healing?

In today’s episode, we are joined by Dr. Lakisha James - an events planner, an author, and a survivor. We talk about her life’s darkest days, and how she was able to channel the negativity to become her light.

Now, she serves a life of service for others - using her experiences to create a safe haven for people who are in the middle of their pain. She shared how she was able to adapt despite the uncomfortableness and inconvenience, coming out happier and stronger than ever.

How do you find purpose in pain? What do you need to do to find your calling in life? How do you start believing that your life will get better?

Tune in to this episode and find out!

01:33 - 02:38 - Ultimate Life defined by Dr. Lakisha James

03:28 - 004:14 - Living a life of service to other people 

04:37 - 06:55 - Rare gift of having real conversations with people

07:22 - 09:03 - Creating a safe space for others through your own experiences

09:15 - 10:21 - Your personal calling in life: Found or created?

10:59 - 12:50 - Is living “the ultimate life” just hype?

13:17 - 16:37 - Dr. Lakisha’s life as an author: Consistency, vulnerability, and healing

17:09 - 18:28 - The courage to look at pain in the light of courage

19:25 - 20:41 - Going through an unfamiliar place: Depression

 22:33 - 25:54 - Peek into Dr. Lakisha’s career: What they are and the reason behind them

 

Dr. Lakisha James’ Links

Find out more about Dr. Lakisha’s business at:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/designereventsbylakisha

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/designereventsbylakisha/

Curious how she became an event planner and how you can become one? Follow along with her talk show: Talks With Lakisha where she talks about her expertise and journey as an event planner.

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLR2SSBd5PV3CMEwTidgdeQ

Connect with her on socials:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lakisha.rakestraw

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-lakisha-james-214141150/


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