Episode 126

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7th Aug 2020

Episode 126 – Love Through the Hate

" It's not unusual to find so much anger these days because hate is another form of fear. Hate is fear showing up in a different way, and fear also shows up as anger. So whether you're angry or afraid or you feel like you hate the root cause is fear of some kind. And if you think about death being the lowest possible energetic state, the one just might microns barely above death is fear and fear manifest in all kinds of ways." - Kellan Fluckiger

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What you are about to learn

 Fear manifests itself in covering if you fear death or pain in a moment, but fear also manifests itself as anger other emotions that masquerade or mask what's going on. How would this be related to our current state right now? Which we are experiencing with this COVID pandemic? We are angry with many things because we feel that our economy is falling and it causes our Jobs to stop temporarily, because of that, we feel anger. Anger to many things because this caused us so much trouble. Like, where are we getting money to pay our bills? The fear of getting sick because this virus spreads too fast and anyone might catch it without knowing.

So it manifests fear. Manifests itself through all kinds of things, and one of the ways is hate. So we're seeing a considerable amount of that right now, in at least the United States it started sort of, but it's manifesting all over the world, and it's racially motivated, or at least that's what's getting blamed on. But there's real fear underlying that fear of not being good enough to fear losing control, fear of not being able to have self-determination of life. The fear of anger will destroy us. We can’t let our anger control us. The only power to create and the only power that lasts is love, hate, violence, and fear all destroy. Fear is, you know, fear of lack of control, lack of self-determination, inability to do things to protect oneself, or provide for oneself.

In my experience, creating your ultimate life and one of the things I've learned on my development journey and as a coach is, that love is the healer. Love is a builder love causes growth, hate, negativity, negativity, anger, that all destroyed So love grows in hatred destroys. And so they're opposites in that sense.  And I really would say that the opposite of love is fear.  And fear manifests itself in all those different ways we talked about. We fear what's changed, we fear, what we can't control, and fear what we don't know. And that all manifests his anger and sometimes hate.

So that's really where it comes from, and what's going on here. So if you want to have your ultimate life and wish to create purpose, prosperity, and joy, serving others with your divine gifts, then your opportunity here is to love and spread and promulgate and act in love.

Yes, all of us are affected by this COVID thing. The problems might be big or small, and you might have immediate financial issues because of COVID or other things. You might have all kinds of stuff. How does one notwithstanding those things, the personal challenges, family challenges, relationship challenges, and financial challenges? How do you love through hate?  I don't have a magic bullet for you. There are only two steps. One is to make a choice, that's how you're going to behave. And the second step is to practice, practice, practice. And that's the key to preparation. So one is a decision. This is who I'm going to be. Not that I am, because we're all in progress, right? But that's the goal out there, and I'm going to be the person who manifests love through the hate no matter what happens around me. And then the practice comes when you make a conscious choice, you create a space between the stimulus and your response, and you choose intentionally how to respond.

Key Takeaways

“You and I, we have a choice. And I'm my thesis that when you act in love, you do everything you can do to counteract this fear and hatred, which is another form of fear. And that's what we can do. And so when I say love through the hate, it means notwithstanding anyone else's behavior, notwithstanding their choice of action, reaction, emotion, opinion, attitude, notwithstanding that, I get to choose love, I get to choose kindness.”

“The goal is I'm going to be the person who manifests love through the hate no matter what happens around me. And then the practice comes when you make a conscious choice, you create a space between the stimulus and your response, and you choose intentionally how to respond. You say I'm going to pour the sauce of love on this comment, or this response, or this reaction. And so that space gives you the chance to think about it and make a conscious choice.”

 

 

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