Episode 194 - (It Doesn't Have to be a) War

Is the pressure you feel real?

In this episode, Kellan talks about War and opposition. When we think about opposition and acrimony, we often associate it with external pressures and resistance. Kellan tells us that quite often the resistance is within ourselves.

When you have external opposition, you have a choice whether or not you allow it to affect you. Kellan reminds us that feeling resistance against our work is normal – when we feel that resistance, it is important to recognize that it is not a measurement of our success.

There is no such thing as failure – only feedback. Choose to move on from that feedback, and preserve your self-esteem, motivation, and determination to create Your Ultimate Life.

Key Takeaways:

• “You’re never going to have success trying to convince those who are in opposition to change their minds.”
• “Is the pressure real?”
  “The acrimony can be very real but it might also be inside of you.”
  “In one sense it was real because I was experiencing it and it was stopping me from creating my ultimate life, but it was mine alone.”
• “When opposition is from someone else, it’s real, and you have a choice whether or not you allow it to affect you.”
  “You allowing it to create a story in your mind is where it’s not real.”
• “If you are feeling a war against your work and your desire to serve others, so what?”
• “Recognize failure for what it is – feedback. Laugh about it, and make a choice that you’re going to move on anyway.”
• “Set up processes to preserve your self-esteem, motivation, and your determination to create the ultimate life.”

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