From Awakening to Action: How to Step Into Your Power and Create Your Ultimate Life
🚀 Are you living consciously or just going through the motions?
In this powerful episode, Kellan sits down with Esther Jones-Alley, a spiritual architect, to discuss awakening, conscious creation, and stepping into your true power. Esther shares her transformational journey—including near-death experiences—and why NOW is the time to wake up, take responsibility, and create the life you truly desire.
Esther Jones-Alley is a Spiritual Architect & Conscious Living Coach who helps leaders and visionaries achieve true inner fulfillment. With her proprietary "Soul Evolution Matrix," she transforms lives by blending intuition, empathy, and practical strategies. An International Speaker and Best-Selling Author, Esther empowers her clients to unlock their potential and design a joy-filled, authentic future.
💡 What You’ll Learn:
✔️ How your thoughts and words shape your reality.
✔️ The difference between wants vs. true desires.
✔️ Why self-love is the foundation of conscious creation.
✔️ How to break free from limiting beliefs and societal conditioning.
"Be willing to take responsibility for everything in your life—you called it in. Wake up, be conscious, and start creating with intention!" - Esther Jones-Alley
📢 Next Steps:
✔️ Connect with Esther: Visit www.EstherJones-Alley.com for her programs, sacred journeys, and coaching.
✔️ Join the FREE Dream, Build, Write It Challenge starting Feb 24th at www.dreambuildwriteit.com – Write your book & share your message!
đź’ˇ Key Takeaways from This Episode:
✔️ Why awakening is not just about realization—it’s about action.
✔️ How your thoughts, words, and emotions shape your reality.
✔️ The difference between wants and desires—and why chasing “wants” keeps you stuck.
✔️ How to take full responsibility for your life and shift from victim to creator.
✔️ Why self-love is the foundation for everything you want to manifest.
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Transcript
Welcome to the show.
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Speaker A:Hello.
Speaker A:Welcome to this episode of your ultimate life, the podcasts and show committed to just one thing.
Speaker A:Helping you create a life of purpose, prosperity and joy that you can create with your own gifts, talents, and your life experience.
Speaker A:I'm excited today to have Esther as my special guest.
Speaker A:Esther, welcome to the show.
Speaker B:Thank you.
Speaker B:Thank you.
Speaker B:I'm excited to be here.
Speaker A:Well, good.
Speaker A:I'm stoked to have you.
Speaker A:And, you know, we were chatting just ahead of time a little bit about, you know, the number of different ways that we can describe this awakening that's happening in the world where people more and more are having this feeling that there's something more and we better get busy and figure it out and live into it.
Speaker B:Yes, yes.
Speaker B:It's such an exciting time to be alive.
Speaker B:And I am so grateful that I'm here and I get to experience this awesome movement that's happening, this awakening, this transformation, this evolution of mankind.
Speaker A:I love it.
Speaker A:Call to arms, call to coolness, call to do something right.
Speaker A:So I want to ask you a question.
Speaker A:I love starting with this question because it's unexpected and I don't want you to be modest in any particular way.
Speaker A:But if I ask you this, tell me how, and tell our guests or our listeners, how is Esther adding good to the world?
Speaker B:First of all, how I live and how I show up in the world, second of all, is my main purpose, and the only reason that I believe that I'm still here in this physical body is to help as many light beings awaken, because there's so many here and they're getting the call, but they're not sure.
Speaker B:And so I've had quite a few just show up on my zoom or show up in my life.
Speaker B:And I think that that's my purpose.
Speaker B:That's why I'm here.
Speaker B:That's how I'm adding good.
Speaker B:Like I said, it's such an amazing time to be here.
Speaker B:And there is a call for those of us that are beginning to evolve to commit to bringing as many along with us.
Speaker B:So.
Speaker A:So let's.
Speaker A:I'm going to dive into that just a little bit more.
Speaker A:I love it.
Speaker A:Two parts to the answer.
Speaker A:One was, and I use the phrase adding good because, you know, we breathe, so we add carbon dioxide.
Speaker A:Right?
Speaker A:Or.
Speaker A:And if we walk around angry, then we add anger if we walk around staring at the ground, and we add isolation.
Speaker A:And, you know, we actually add something to the world with every breath.
Speaker A:And so the first thing you said is how I'm being, how I show up in the world.
Speaker A:Tell me more about that.
Speaker A:Because I want people to understand the impact that they have, period.
Speaker B:Yes, yes.
Speaker B:And that's.
Speaker B:I'm glad you went back to that.
Speaker B:Because so many of us live unconsciously.
Speaker B:We speak unconsciously, we think unconsciously.
Speaker B:And so creating things, and we're not conscious that we're creating.
Speaker B:Our words are our creative faculty.
Speaker B:The thoughts we have.
Speaker B:We've lost so much.
Speaker B:So many of us have lost the ability to imagine.
Speaker B:And that's the greatest creative.
Speaker B:It's like the ignition to creating things.
Speaker B:So to me, I am conscious.
Speaker B:I listen, I think before I speak.
Speaker B:I pay attention to what's happening around me, how I react to it, because it's not what's happening to you, it's how you're reacting to it.
Speaker B:And so when I say how I show up, how I'm being, it's not about doing.
Speaker B:And we've coming from that era of doing, doing, we got to make this happen.
Speaker B:We got to make that allowing showing up and allowing the universe to show you the path.
Speaker B:And you might say, how when you become conscious and you act, the universe will show you.
Speaker B:It's like you've got to put your order in.
Speaker B:And that's the axing.
Speaker B:You know, if you go to a restaurant and sit down, that food is not going to magically show up on your table.
Speaker B:You got to put your order in, right?
Speaker B:And then you ain't gonna get up and go tell the chef how to fix it.
Speaker B:You're gonna allow the chef to do what it does.
Speaker B:It's the same thing with the universe.
Speaker B:It's waiting for you to put the order in and then allow it to bring to you what it is you desire.
Speaker A:Something that's.
Speaker A:Go ahead, I'm sorry, finish up.
Speaker B:So words are words.
Speaker B:What we say, how we say it, what is the intent behind what we say.
Speaker B:All those things come into play when we show up.
Speaker A:So I'm thinking, yeah, in the restaurant example, so if that waiter comes to take my order, and the way I show up is, I'm angry, and I tell them, don't you dare.
Speaker A:You know, And I say, don't.
Speaker A:Don't burn my stuff.
Speaker A:Do this, do that.
Speaker A:And I show up in the restaurant giving my order that way, and the waiter goes back to the chef and says, burn this One, you know, because I showed up that way or I insulted them either in my manner or my language or something, it impacts the food that I get, right?
Speaker B:Oh, without a doubt.
Speaker B:That goes back to what you put out in the world, comes back to you.
Speaker B:So how you show up and what you're putting out there, that is a universal law.
Speaker B:It's going to come back to you that way.
Speaker B:So again, being conscious, when you show up, how are you showing up?
Speaker A:I love that.
Speaker A:So tell me how you got there.
Speaker A:Because being conscious, like as we're raised, we're given feedback practically from the cradle that we're not enough.
Speaker A:You did this wrong, you did that wrong.
Speaker A:Grades and friends and betrayals and jobs and failures and all those things sort of beat into us.
Speaker A:The idea that we're not enough and we have to scramble and live in this sort of fearful way and you don't fall up the mountain of consciousness.
Speaker A:Like you don't get there accidentally.
Speaker A:So tell me a little bit about.
Speaker B:It's all a deliberate process.
Speaker A:Yeah, talk a bit, a little bit about that.
Speaker A:How did you get to get up, get a ways up that hill?
Speaker B:I'm seven of 10.
Speaker B:I came from a family of 10 with a single parent.
Speaker B:My mom and dad weren't together, so she was doing the best she could, but I always felt that I didn't belong there.
Speaker B:And it was a very strict religious upbringing, Pentecostal holiness.
Speaker B:I mean, they had so many rules and regulations.
Speaker B:I didn't understand what they were doing.
Speaker B:They, you know, believed very strictly in the Bible and, you know, I had questions from a little child.
Speaker B:I was always in trouble because I didn't understand what they were talking about.
Speaker B:But I had a near death experience, my first near death experience at 23.
Speaker B:And I was told that, well, basically the doctors told my family, if you know how to pray, you better pray because there's nothing we can do for her.
Speaker B:I had contracted serum hepatitis through some dental work and didn't know.
Speaker B:Took him six months to figure that out.
Speaker B:By the time figured it out, I was in the third stages of the disease where you just sleep away.
Speaker B:And I remember the minister of the church, the bishop of that church, he looked at me, he said, you know, we've been praying, we've sent to all these different organizations he belonged to.
Speaker B:And the red flag, you're out of here, basically, right?
Speaker B:But then he looked at me and said, but if you want to live, you have to choose.
Speaker B:And I thought to myself, I'm out of here because I don't know the God y'all will be talking to, right?
Speaker B:So I'm like, I'm out of here.
Speaker B:But that.
Speaker B:You know, they got me to the hospital.
Speaker B:And I think when you think about a mother's love, it's one of the most powerful things in the universe.
Speaker B:My mother was there every day from the time visiting hours started till they were closed.
Speaker B:And she would come and she would wake me up.
Speaker B:She'd keep me.
Speaker B:She was holding me to this side.
Speaker B:And every night, I would dream.
Speaker B:And the dreams were so vivid because they were like my life was playing out, you know, all the things that had happened to me while I had it so far.
Speaker B:And then one night, I didn't dream.
Speaker B:And when I woke up the next morning, the strangest thing had happened.
Speaker B:I wasn't who I was when I went to sleep, and I knew I wasn't.
Speaker B:The sun was coming through the window, and I'm looking at this sun.
Speaker B:I was so excited to see it because I'd never seen it before.
Speaker B:I knew intellectually, but I'd never seen it before.
Speaker B:I looked down.
Speaker B:I saw trees.
Speaker B:I knew, that's a tree.
Speaker B:Oh, that's what it looks like.
Speaker B:This is what was happening in my mind.
Speaker B:And I knew that I was healed.
Speaker B:There was no illness in me.
Speaker B:But the other strange thing was I had the memories, but it was like I'm looking in someone else's mind because I had no recollection of experiencing that stuff.
Speaker B:So I'm looking in someone else's memories.
Speaker B:It took me 10 years to find out what that was, what had happened that night.
Speaker B:But it set me on a path.
Speaker B:You said, how did I get here?
Speaker B:So that's what set me on this path of awakening.
Speaker B:And it didn't happen completely because I had to.
Speaker B:I went there two more times, but I never stopped growing.
Speaker B:Took me 10 years to figure out that that was an exchange, which I don't know if you've ever heard.
Speaker A:Tell me what you mean.
Speaker A:An exchange what?
Speaker B:A walk in.
Speaker B:An exchange of souls.
Speaker B:The soul that was there, here, when I was born chose to leave and agree to allow a walk in.
Speaker B:And that's why everything was so new, why I didn't understand.
Speaker B:Although I quickly adapted, I still had this.
Speaker B:What.
Speaker B:What am I doing here?
Speaker A:Do you feel like I've heard the term walk in before?
Speaker A:Do you feel.
Speaker A:And you use the word, the pronoun.
Speaker A:I just now.
Speaker A:So.
Speaker A:But if you were a different soul from 0 to 23, and that happened at 23, where a second soul came in and walked in to that life and then saw the old memories, but didn't have the experience of having experienced them.
Speaker A:You use the pronoun I.
Speaker A:Did it?
Speaker A:Did it feel like I or they?
Speaker A:I mean, like, how did you experience that ownership?
Speaker B:No, I.
Speaker B:I didn't know what had happened.
Speaker B:So I could only use the I.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker B:Because I didn't understand the process.
Speaker B:And like I said, it took me 23.
Speaker B:I mean, 10 years.
Speaker B:This book I found had no clue why I'm reading this woman.
Speaker B:Her name was Ruth Montgomery and she had a series of books.
Speaker B:One was called the Strangers Among Us.
Speaker B:And when I picked up the book and started to read it, I recognized the process.
Speaker B:To me, now I understand.
Speaker B:And what I've been able to really understand about that process.
Speaker B:In the exchange, the agreement was that I would finish out whatever the previous soul had committed to before I could begin my process.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker B:It took me a while and then I think after the last.
Speaker B:I was 46 when I had the last near death experience.
Speaker B:I'd had a gallbladder surgery through a clot and went bad.
Speaker B:It sit in my body for 30 days.
Speaker B:My lung began to atrophy.
Speaker B:Of course they're thinking, this woman's out of here because all it takes is a piece off of that blood clot that's setting in her lung and she's gone.
Speaker B:And there were some amazing things that happened about that.
Speaker B:But the message from that was, you don't need to come here again to get what you have.
Speaker B:And that sent me on a whole different direction than I had been on.
Speaker B:So that told me I was complete with that.
Speaker B:And now the downloads became quicker, clearer.
Speaker B:I began to understand.
Speaker B:People showed up in my life to support what was happening to me, to help me understand what was going on and who I was.
Speaker B:And I'm still in question of that, trust me.
Speaker B:But my.
Speaker B:My whole life changed.
Speaker A:So let me ask you question about that.
Speaker A:I believe you and I, we've talked before, and, you know, I had an experience where I died also.
Speaker A:But anyway, tell me one of the things we use, the language we use is.
Speaker A:And then I understand what my life's about.
Speaker A:Just like what you just said, we say that.
Speaker A:And so this might get to the second part of what you said about adding good to the world.
Speaker A:You had these remarkable experiences that helped you see who you really were and that you were what you were about, which is living consciously and making intentional conscious decisions about what you add to the world with your thinking and language.
Speaker A:And part two was to help wake up or awaken as many other people as you can so that they will do that.
Speaker A:Tell me for the listeners, help me them understand what you mean by what I'm about, what I, who I am and helping others wake up.
Speaker A:Like what does that all mean in plain language?
Speaker A:So someone listening to this can say, wow, I either have or I want to have a more fulsome understanding or experience about that.
Speaker B:When I say what I'm all about, I begin to understand my purpose, why that exchange happened.
Speaker B:Does that make sense?
Speaker A:It doesn't tell us what truly I.
Speaker B:In fact, I'm not going to say I believe I know every soul that enters this realm has a purpose.
Speaker B:But like you were saying earlier, we are, we come in through the birth canal, which I call the river of forgetfulness, and we forget why we came and so that we can experience this world in a way that we have chosen to experience it.
Speaker B:So what happens though is that you said earlier we're influenced by this person, that person, our environment.
Speaker B:If you watch a little child, they're learning at lightning speed.
Speaker B:They're picking up not just what you're saying because they don't really listen to that.
Speaker B:They're watching what you're doing, they're watching what's happening around them.
Speaker B:And so the way our, our society is set up, it does not support us being the powerful beings that we truly are.
Speaker B:So in the process, there are things that will happen along our lifeline that are meant to help wake us up.
Speaker B:But because of the way that our society is built, rather than taking the pearls from what happened and allowing what we call mistakes to become experiences, we either latch onto that and become victims.
Speaker B:You know, oh, this happened to me, blah blah, blah, blah.
Speaker B:So now you're off your path again.
Speaker B:Something that happened to someone to come in.
Speaker B:Maybe you'll have some healing with your trauma or whatever, but you get back on that path.
Speaker B:The point is to recognize I came here to experience these emotions or those emotions, what, however you want to say it.
Speaker B:And my purpose here is to help others that have experienced this wake up and realize who they are as powerful beings.
Speaker B:Because I believe that we're all much more powerful than we recognize.
Speaker B:But we've given that power away based on how our society is set up.
Speaker B:Everything in our society tell us that we're victims or that we're weak or we can't do this or we can't do that.
Speaker B:You know, you look, you look, look at tv, listen to radio.
Speaker B:It's always something negative, something bad.
Speaker B:You better be afraid of this.
Speaker B:You better Be afraid of that.
Speaker B:So when I say who I am, I've seen through the bs, I've seen through the Matrix, I've seen through the illusion.
Speaker B:And we all have that ability.
Speaker B:And that's what this great awakening is about.
Speaker B:Seeing through the illusions that we have created.
Speaker B:No one else came and created this.
Speaker A:I agree.
Speaker A:So I want to go there.
Speaker A:You said a couple of times about society teaches us this by the way it's structured.
Speaker A:Why do you think, and I know you're making this up here, because we all are, but why is it structured that way?
Speaker A:Why is it that from practically the moment we're born, for nearly everyone, I won't say everybody, but nearly everyone, it is structured or seems to be structured so that it beats the crap out of our self confidence.
Speaker B:Let me just cut through it, let me cut through it.
Speaker B:Because we decided we're going to create this game that we want to come here and play in, right?
Speaker B:And so because we set the rules, because we've forgotten, right?
Speaker B:So that we could experience all of this stuff that we've created.
Speaker B:Well, what's happening is we're at the end of the game.
Speaker B: In fact,: Speaker B:We're coming into a new cycle.
Speaker B:That game is over.
Speaker B:It's time to wake up.
Speaker B:So we're starting to wake up.
Speaker B:It's like the Earth began to move into a higher dimension.
Speaker B:A faster vibrational frequency.
Speaker B:So the energy's changed around this planet.
Speaker B:We are being affected by that energy.
Speaker B:More and more people are waking up.
Speaker B:Oh, this doesn't feel right.
Speaker B:And you, I'm sure people talk to you all the time, say I don't know, you know what I used to believe, it just doesn't make sense anymore.
Speaker B:This, this is kind of this, this ain't right.
Speaker B:No, no, I don't want to do that.
Speaker B:Because the energy of this planet has changed and people are beginning to wake up.
Speaker B:We're moving into a new cycle.
Speaker B:We can create something different now.
Speaker B:But there's nothing out there that's created this.
Speaker B:We are the creators and we set it up that way.
Speaker B:So yeah, when I say this society, I'm talking about what we did, not what something outside, something, you know, out there.
Speaker B:Nothing is orchestrating us.
Speaker B:We are orchestrating ourselves.
Speaker B:And that's what we have to wake up to and realize.
Speaker B:We created this illusion of, you know, this God sitting out there.
Speaker B:This energy out there.
Speaker B:No, it's within us.
Speaker A:What do you think in this change that's happening now in the new energy.
Speaker A:And I agree it just in terms of language that I hear people using, this yearning to do more, be more, create, take control.
Speaker A:You know, everybody languages it differently, but people are feeling that.
Speaker A:What is the new creation?
Speaker A:Can you describe at least to start with what you think this new creation is that we're being asked, invited, driven to create.
Speaker B:Okay, so the new creation, first of all starts with recognizing that we're all one, that we're all connected.
Speaker B:What I do to you, I do to myself.
Speaker B:That illusion is gone.
Speaker B:I recognize we're all from the one source.
Speaker B:There's one source.
Speaker B:And we're all.
Speaker B:We've.
Speaker B:We.
Speaker B:We have created these little pieces of ourselves so that we could experience what we create, which then helps us to expand.
Speaker B:But we're all the same thing.
Speaker B:Does that make sense?
Speaker A:I understand.
Speaker A:Absolutely.
Speaker A:Non duality is the interesting way to say that.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker A:And maybe some people will understand it and maybe they won't, but I think everybody will understand what you do to someone else, you do to yourself, because there is essentially unity.
Speaker A:So keep going.
Speaker B:So when we.
Speaker B:When we begin to understand that we are one, we are all connected, it changes the whole dynamic of how we treat one another, right?
Speaker A:Yes.
Speaker B:I'm not going to hurt myself.
Speaker B:So if I'm not going to hurt myself, I'm not going to hurt you.
Speaker B:It raises the bar of what we create.
Speaker B:And so sharp, quick version.
Speaker B:Heaven on Earth, period.
Speaker B:You ask me what it looks like, what we track.
Speaker B:Heaven on Earth, okay?
Speaker A:Where.
Speaker B:These bodies, our avatars, we don't mistreat them because they will regenerate themselves, but it's because of the environment and how we eat and, you know, what we do to ourselves that these, these avatars break down so quickly.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker B:And science is beginning to understand that these bodies can do a lot more than what they thought.
Speaker B:You don't put those chemicals that, you know, anything from the pharmaceutical started out natural, but they added chemicals to it.
Speaker B:And that's why you see the rise of plant medicine, because people are going back to what this Earth was meant to support us completely.
Speaker A:I saw it.
Speaker A:I do.
Speaker A:I saw a YouTube video.
Speaker A: eo, but the title said, in the: Speaker A:And I don't know if that's true or not, but it's an interesting thought.
Speaker B:About what you're talking about when you say forever.
Speaker B:When you say forever, as you move into the higher consciousness, you move out of time and space anyway.
Speaker B:There Is no time and space.
Speaker B:This is something we created for this game.
Speaker B:You see what I'm saying?
Speaker A:I do.
Speaker B:So when you say living forever, what's forever?
Speaker A:You see, well, forever is a construct that we have when we measure time in a linear fashion.
Speaker A:And you're saying, thank you, that goes away because we stopped being linear about it all.
Speaker A:And we recognize that.
Speaker B:Thank you.
Speaker A:Sort of spherical or circular nature of all of it.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker A:So tell me about the work that you do now.
Speaker A:I.
Speaker A:We started with, you know, what happened and your purpose and how you're adding good to the world and your journey.
Speaker A:And you've described not anywhere near all of it, but a number of events that have brought you to this place.
Speaker A:So tell me about the work, or I don't even want to call it work.
Speaker B:Because that's called play to me.
Speaker A:Yeah.
Speaker A:All right.
Speaker A:So I love that.
Speaker A:And thank you.
Speaker B:What I play when I'm playing with people, I come.
Speaker B:I am a spiritual architect.
Speaker B:And what does an architect do?
Speaker B:They lay out the plans to build a new container.
Speaker B:So I help the people that I work with build a container so that they can be all that they can be.
Speaker B:Because when I say we're powerful, we're so much bigger than these physical bodies.
Speaker B:We're so much more.
Speaker B:When you realize that you are part of everything, that you are one with everything, there's nothing that you cannot do.
Speaker B:The only thing that's stopping you is you and your belief.
Speaker B:You're limited by your vision.
Speaker B:We're limited by our vision, by our imagination.
Speaker A:So if I'm coming to you with a limited or shriveled up vision of my own possibility, but I have this yearning and underlying sense that there could be, should be, is something more, but I don't know how to access it.
Speaker A:You're telling me that what you do, you work with me, to architect, to eliminate the false boundaries, to eliminate the barriers that I put up and create a larger space and a larger vision so I can begin to not only see and pretend, but to experience the possibility of this larger vision.
Speaker A:Is that what you're saying?
Speaker B:That's exactly what I'm saying.
Speaker B:And what I do is when I'm working with someone, I'm listening not to what you're saying, but what you're not saying.
Speaker B:Because that's where the key is.
Speaker B:We're good at telling our stories.
Speaker B:But what is it that you're not saying to me that I need to know that I need to hear?
Speaker A:That is so.
Speaker A:I love that.
Speaker A:Because you're right.
Speaker A:What we Say is just a regurgitation of what we've always said and what we believed and this gobbledygook that we've accepted for however long.
Speaker A:And so help me and the listeners understand, what is the not saying.
Speaker B:Yeah, I had a client that his wife sent him to me because they were having some marital issues, right?
Speaker B:And the first session that we had, he looked at me and he said, so how long is this going to take?
Speaker B:And I looked at him, said, how.
Speaker B:How long do you want it to take?
Speaker B:It's going to take as long as you want it to take.
Speaker B:But I began to see in him because he's telling me he's confessing all the wrong that he's done, right?
Speaker B:But what he's not telling me is the underlining, driving energy that's caused that helped him to make those decisions.
Speaker B:And what he really desired, right?
Speaker B:And what he really desired was to be the head of his household.
Speaker B:And he didn't feel that way.
Speaker B:So he would go out and have affairs with him because they made him feel like king, right?
Speaker B:But he couldn't say that.
Speaker B:And I never had to say it to him, but I led him to the place where he could say it.
Speaker B:What is going on?
Speaker B:Do you understand what I'm saying?
Speaker B:I was able to lead him to that space where he could say to himself, and he could hear himself say it, that that's what he wanted to be, is the tree in which all of his family was covered.
Speaker B:But it was only because I'm looking beyond what he's telling me to see what his desire is.
Speaker B:Does that make sense to you?
Speaker A:It does.
Speaker A:He had a desire that wasn't fulfilled, and he was chasing other ways to fulfill it that were causing all these problems, obviously, solution.
Speaker B:But he had never said it to himself.
Speaker B:He had never acknowledged what the yearning was.
Speaker B:And that's how people often get into these situations that they don't want to be in because they're not willing to be honest with themselves.
Speaker B:They're not willing to look within themselves and truly understand, what is it that I desire.
Speaker B:They're chasing their wants rather than their desires.
Speaker B:See, and the desire is something you already have.
Speaker B:A want is something that you don't have.
Speaker B:And you think, if I keep doing this, I'll get it.
Speaker B:No.
Speaker B:But when you say, I want this, I want that, I want this, the universe says, okay, Kellen, want it.
Speaker B:We'll make sure he wants it.
Speaker B:But when you say, I desire this, because you know, this is what you're made of.
Speaker B:This is part of you.
Speaker B:The universe goes on, says, okay, let me create more of what he is.
Speaker B:Let me create more of what he has already.
Speaker A:So the foundation there is a big distinction between a desire, which is consistent with the truth of my eternal nature, and want, which is an artificial construct maybe created by these, this game that we're playing or all this sort of thing.
Speaker A:And so these artificial wants come on there and we confuse wants and desires and think, if I get enough wants, I'll get the desire.
Speaker A:And that's not true, because the desire is consistent with the truth of who we really are.
Speaker B:Yeah.
Speaker B:And you only get more of it when you recognize this is my true desire.
Speaker B:Those wants will have you out there chasing all kind of things, doing all kind of things, because you're wanting something that's not what you are.
Speaker B:And see, what you are is already everything.
Speaker B:You don't have to want it.
Speaker B:Acknowledge what you are, and all things are possible.
Speaker B:We live in an unlimited universe.
Speaker B:It's like people say, and I think I want.
Speaker B:Well, that's not how you create.
Speaker B:You create by I imagine.
Speaker B:When you say I imagine this for myself, that's like the ignition turns on.
Speaker B:The universe is now gone to work.
Speaker B:It's bringing that imagination because you see it when you imagine something.
Speaker B:Think about it.
Speaker B:Kids playing, they're imagining their friend, they're imagining this, and it's real.
Speaker B:That's how we create.
Speaker B:It's like we have to become little children again and use that powerful part of ourselves to imagine our world to be what we desire to be.
Speaker A:It's fascinating.
Speaker A:Often people go talk about how little kids they want without limits.
Speaker A:In other words, they can be both the president and a fireman and an astronaut and be in all these places at the same time.
Speaker A:And the idea of lack and limitation doesn't occur to them.
Speaker A:And we learn that limitation as we have these experiences playing this game.
Speaker B:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker B:So that's why you have to, I mean, and even think about it.
Speaker B:Even the, the master Yeshua says, unless you become as a little child, you cannot enter the kingdom.
Speaker A:Right.
Speaker B:And the kingdom is heaven on earth.
Speaker B:It's a, it's a state of consciousness.
Speaker A:So when you work with people, is it like a set of.
Speaker A:Do you meet with them?
Speaker A:Do you meet with them weekly, monthly?
Speaker A:Do you.
Speaker B:I, I week.
Speaker B:I meet with.
Speaker B:Normally when I do one on ones, it's usually a minimum of a year because we got a lot of stuff to clean up.
Speaker B:Right.
Speaker B:Okay.
Speaker B:And I meet with them once a week and we do it on Zoom.
Speaker B:And they have Assignments that, you know, I'll give them.
Speaker B:Do this, work on this, work on it.
Speaker B:Because one of the biggest.
Speaker B:One of the biggest holes that people have fallen into is not loving themselves.
Speaker B:And they talk about, oh, yeah, you got to love yourself, but it's not as simple as that.
Speaker B:You got to go in there and undo some stuff that's.
Speaker B:Understand.
Speaker B:Understand who and what you are, because you come as pure love.
Speaker B:And like you said, all these things that happen in this game pushes you away.
Speaker B:You're not good enough.
Speaker B:You're not this, you're not that.
Speaker B:You got to learn to love yourself unapologetically.
Speaker B:It's like, you know, people say, if you're selfish, how can you be?
Speaker B:Well, there's a selfishness that you have to be in order to love yourself unapologetically.
Speaker B:Because if you're not okay, how are you going to help someone else?
Speaker A:Well, there's a difference between.
Speaker A:Yeah, there's a difference between selfish indulgence and truly honoring the infinite being that you are.
Speaker A:You know, honoring the infinite being you are is taking good care of the skin bag, the spirit that's inside, and all of the rest.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker A:And exuding and sharing the love and truth that is also them, because they are me.
Speaker A:So thank you.
Speaker B:Thank you, thank you.
Speaker B:Because people are saying, oh, I love you enough.
Speaker B:How can you give something you don't have?
Speaker B:If you don't love yourself, you cannot love someone else.
Speaker B:I call that situational or conditional love.
Speaker B:As long as you're doing what I say, I love you.
Speaker B:When you don't, do we got a problem.
Speaker B:You go into the lack category.
Speaker B:Okay, And.
Speaker B:And you'll find it with parents and children and husband and wives, and you'll find that going on everywhere.
Speaker B:And people are dying from the lack of love, loving themselves first.
Speaker B:Because when you love yourself, no, you're not going to allow certain things in your life, and you can do it without any anger or frustration or bitterness.
Speaker B:You can do it from a place of love.
Speaker B:You know, I set boundary from a place of love.
Speaker B:I was in.
Speaker B:Where was I at?
Speaker B:I think I was in India.
Speaker B:And we were on the bus, and this man comes in and he, you know, his wife wanted to sit in a seat where I was, but I had my suitcase there, and I was sitting by the window.
Speaker B:So I was trying to tell her to, wait, let me get out and let her in.
Speaker B:And he starts talking crazy to me.
Speaker B:Who.
Speaker B:Why you talk to her?
Speaker B:Why did.
Speaker B:And I just looked at him and said, did I give you permission to speak to Me.
Speaker B:And I know I did not give you permission to speak to me in this way.
Speaker B:And he was like, but see, that was a boundary.
Speaker B:You don't get to just speak to me anyway just because you have a mouth.
Speaker B:You don't get to use your mouth as a weapon against me.
Speaker B:That's not okay.
Speaker B:And I have a right to say to you, hope you're crossing the boundary here.
Speaker B:And I don't have to be angry.
Speaker B:It just is.
Speaker B:People can't do that.
Speaker B:A lot of people want.
Speaker B:They have to be angry or they have to be frustrated or they shrink into victim.
Speaker A:Right.
Speaker A:Subservience.
Speaker B:You love yourself.
Speaker B:You set boundaries.
Speaker A:You do.
Speaker A:And you're doing it because you're honoring the truth of your divinity.
Speaker A:It's not about pushing you away because I'm better than.
Speaker A:Or you can't this, that, and the other.
Speaker A:And it's also a truth that they could learn.
Speaker A:Look at this person honoring their divinity, their divine nature and being.
Speaker A:Setting a boundary for me.
Speaker A:Wow.
Speaker A:What is that saying about me that I was even violating?
Speaker A:I mean, most people aren't going to go that introspective.
Speaker B:Tell me.
Speaker B:Not, not, not.
Speaker B:Not at first.
Speaker B:But if they keep talking to me, they'll get there.
Speaker A:Yeah, I believe you.
Speaker A:I believe you.
Speaker A:I, I'm.
Speaker A:And you know, we had a.
Speaker A:We had a brief chance to talk another day and I really enjoyed that as well as we got to know each other.
Speaker A:So I want people to know how to find you, how to find your programs and find out more about, like, I don't know if you've got programs and I know you said you meet with people a certain way, but how do we, how do we do that?
Speaker B:I actually do.
Speaker B:My website is www Esther Jones1Word-Alley.com and it has all of my programs on it.
Speaker B:It has my sacred journeys because I do also do sacred journeys to India, Egypt.
Speaker B:Planning to do one this year to Bali.
Speaker B:I went last year to kind of scope it out.
Speaker B:And I, I take people on these journeys so they can feel the energy of these sacred places that is still there.
Speaker B:And all of that's on that website.
Speaker B:I also am on Facebook under Esther Ali and I'm on.
Speaker B:On Instagram, Esther Jones alley.
Speaker B:I'm on LinkedIn.
Speaker B:Esther Alley.
Speaker B:Esther Jones Alley.
Speaker B:So all these places, I am there and.
Speaker B:Welcome to Reach Out.
Speaker B:Welcome to Reach Out.
Speaker A:What?
Speaker A:Did I not ask you that you're dying for me or others that are watching to know.
Speaker B:I'm not dying for anything, first of all.
Speaker A:Okay.
Speaker A:That you would enjoy or Love to have people know or hear.
Speaker B:Well, again, like I said, I go on these sacred journeys.
Speaker B:I still have some spots for India.
Speaker B:I'm doing India.
Speaker B:And February 24 through March 8, we're doing all of South India.
Speaker B:We'll be going to several cities.
Speaker B:We'll be, you know, have a chance to bathe an elephant, spend the night on a riverboat, the whole bit.
Speaker B:I'm really excited about it.
Speaker B: In: Speaker B:There's so much energy there, but a lot of people don't get a chance to experience it.
Speaker B:I call India the land of unconditional love.
Speaker B:But because they.
Speaker B:People go there with judgment, with.
Speaker B:With preconceived notions.
Speaker B:You know, you see all the.
Speaker B:The propaganda about this.
Speaker B:This country.
Speaker B:And so they never get past that to really feel the unconditional love.
Speaker B:That's the secret of India, is unconditional love.
Speaker B:And if you can get past all of your judgment and expectation, you will get to experience that power.
Speaker B:Egypt is the land of the gods.
Speaker B:And when I go there, I get to walk with them, I get to commune with them.
Speaker B:They're there, but they vibrate on a different frequency, which is much higher than what we are on.
Speaker B:But if you raise your frequency high enough, they'll meet you and speak with you.
Speaker B:These are entities that have been there for eons because remember, they don't die.
Speaker A:Okay, so I love this.
Speaker A:And I want to repeat.
Speaker A:Estherjones ali a l l e y.com so take a look and see.
Speaker A:I encourage you to do that, Esther.
Speaker A:Thank you for your presence and thank you for your laughter, for your heart, and for your.
Speaker A:Your true and unvarnished yearning for people to love themselves and therefore create their possibilities.
Speaker B:Yes.
Speaker B:And just be open and willing and more conscious.
Speaker B:Start to think before you speak because we're always creating.
Speaker B:And what are you creating?
Speaker B:What is it that you desire to see in your life?
Speaker B:Be conscious.
Speaker B:Wake up.
Speaker B:So, yeah, thank you.
Speaker A:Thank you.
Speaker A:So I want to.
Speaker A:You betcha.
Speaker A:I want to encourage all of you listeners.
Speaker A:Go back and listen.
Speaker A:There were lots of pieces here.
Speaker A:The focus is just being aware.
Speaker A:Start with being aware of what you're creating, because it's not just what you're doing, it's like you're creating.
Speaker A:The energy you send out with your language, internally and externally is creating, is what we learned today.
Speaker A:So be aware of that.
Speaker B:And there's one more piece that is really important.
Speaker B:Be willing to take responsibility for what you're creating.
Speaker B:Nothing comes into our world unbidden.
Speaker B:Nothing shows up that we do not call in on some level.
Speaker B:And as you become conscious, you begin to recognize what it is you're calling into your world.
Speaker B:So be willing to take the responsibility as well.
Speaker B:It's not just being conscious of what you're creating.
Speaker B:Be willing to take the responsibility and ask questions.
Speaker B:What is this here in my life to serve me?
Speaker B:How is this going to serve me?
Speaker B:What am I supposed to learn when something that we call bad happened?
Speaker B:Go in and pull the pearls from it.
Speaker B:Because there's some pearls in there that's meant for you to grow from.
Speaker B:Not to sit down as a victim, but to open up your heart and let it teach you what it's come to teach you.
Speaker B:So I wanted to throw that in because it's not enough just to be conscious, but you've got to be willing to take responsibility for everything.
Speaker B:Not some everything that shows up in your life because you've called it in.
Speaker A:So I love that and I actually completely agree.
Speaker A:So please do that listeners, and then think about this.
Speaker A:You know, your ultimate life is a life you create.
Speaker A:And if you do this, if you take responsibility and become aware of and create consciously, then you will be able to create your own ultimate life.
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