Episode 200 - Master Your Fear
Do you believe you can?
In this episode, Kellan talks about Fear – being afraid of failure, embarrassment, uncertainty, getting hurt, doubt, judgement, and rejection. We learn that fear is the main reason why many people don’t have their ultimate lives.
Some theories equate fear with death – internal death, specifically. Fear causes people to wither away and their productivity, will to serve, and their desires die. Kellan reminds us that, although fear is a powerful force, there are ways to overcome our fears.
If you take responsibility, and get the right help, you will no longer live debilitated by fear, and you will make great progress towards Your Ultimate Life.
Key Takeaways:
- “Context is that series of definitions, beliefs, experience, expectations, and perceptions that shapes what you believe is possible.”
- “Why is it that we settle for crumbs – we live far below our opportunities and our potential?"
- “The answer is really simple: because we don’t believe.”
- “Fear is the barrier that keeps most people from doing the thing they believe they could do, or they want to be able to do, or mostly believe they should be doing. They think of reasons not to, and they’re almost always based on fear.”
- “We all fear judgement and rejection.”
- “Fear is the principal reason why you don’t have your ultimate life right now, if you don’t.”
- “There are millions of people who wither away and die in terms of productivity, who they could be, and what they could produce – their gifts and talents go undeveloped, untapped, unutilized, unrecognized. All the service that they could’ve done remains undone.”
- It is possible to overcome fear.
- “You are not destined to live debilitated by fear forever.”
- Take responsibility.
- “Someone else isn’t going to give you a magic wand or a pill and say, ‘the fear is gone.’ You need to take responsibility.”
- Get the right kind of help.
- “That can be in the form of counsellors or coaches that can help you do the things that you want to do.”
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